B's life

Dating at the coffee shop

Remember when you were a kid and you thought taking a girl to the cinema was “the ultimate” dating place. Well you were wrong. Taking someone on a date is to find out about each other if you are compatible. And going to the cinema isn’t the ideal place if you haven’t interacted with her enough to strike her interest.

At the coffee house you can doze down a couple of coffee while talking for hours about each other. And as both of you know its a date, it’s ok to linger on and on about anything.

Except for certain topics to avoid:

• Previous relationship
• Complain about your work (not too much, just mention)
• Lingering on and on about your work. (stay quick: 30 -60 seconds)

But remember to set another date if you feel that the date went well.

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Since reading those books a few days ago I have been addicted to the knowledge of knowing about relationship, approaches, women, etc…. It’s sort of a science, like physical education. Except that you learn the science of women and relationship.

So far understanding women is very complicated. There are things you can do and some things you cannot.

For example it’s best to not want her so that she wants you. Basically you gotta make her want you. It will be easier if you imagine that she is like a cat. You can tangle a string at a cat, and the cat will go crazy to get it. But once the cat gets it, it get dis interested with it.

So what you have to do is get her interested. But interested will not get you laid, you gotta make her attracted to you. This is something I have to figure out on my own. From what I read to get attraction is to make her feel good emotionally and sensually without hitting on her.

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After looking at some of the videos, audiobooks and books I found online. (especially The Game by Neil Strauss a.k.a Style)

I have decided to try to venture into that world.

My new weight is now 84.5kg!

I am quite happy I sort of skipped 85kg somehow….

Well anyway now that I reached and passed my 85kg target I am now aiming to reach 80kg within 4 weeks or 1 week after my exams on the first of June. I will be going to the gym everyday, no matter what the weather or circumstances I must dedicated myself to going.

Once I reach my goal, which I hope is around June time, I will have the summer holidays to work really hard to tone up and build a good chest and arms. My aim for this year is to get around 78kg with a  body fat percentage of 8-12. Which should be really good. And hopefully I’ll be sorted with my immigration issues.